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What hinders a Healthy Sex Life in Committed relationships by Dr. Patrick E. Prince

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Sex or sexual issues are usually symptoms of other problems within the relationship. When these are resolved, most couples realized it was never about sex.

The following checklist highlights a few of the common relationship issues that I have experienced / addressed throughout my 23+ years of practice dealing with couples. This is not limited to TCI, but includes my Country, St. Kitts & Nevis, as well as other Caribbean Countries, and the United States of America where I studies and trained. This is not an exhaustive list; and these so-called sexual issues are often not about sex or sexual activities, but are signs and symptoms of other fundamental issues that are ignored:

1. Boundary Issues – most spouses want to change their partners, and can’t; thus, there are holdouts on sexual activities as a way to pressure that change, which often never comes. Instead, it puts more strain on the relationship and on sexual activity.

2. Decreased or Lack of Intimacy – as a result of couples not being able to spend the quality time and communicating as openly and positively as before, when they first met; desire for and affection towards each other decline. This often leaves both partners, or at least one partner unsatisfied; and sexual activity becomes more of a chore than a cloud of bliss.

3. Distracted Attention – couples usually bring children into the mix. Children are a blessing; but couples have a tendency to allow children to distract their love, romance, and intimacy. Couples don’t date anymore, don’t have their sexual cat-plays anymore, they don’t dress sexily in the bedroom anymore… when asked why? The usual response, “the Children.” Of course, this hinders getting to the home base (Sex!!!).

4. Emotional Cheating – because of all of the above previously highlighted issues, couples usual turn to a friend or a online buddy or a neighbor to confide in. This becomes a habitual activity. And, before you know it, it has gone too far. In most cases, there are no physical sexual interactions. However, the partner becomes so caught up in the emotional relationship that it distracts from the actual “real” relationship. Not finding a way to effectively communicate their needs and the relational hiccups, couples cause the door to the bedroom to be temporary closed.

5. Lack of Appreciation – can trigger infidelity or emotional cheating. When a partner does not feel appreciated, s/he often turn to others for such attention. More often than not does “it” stays as verbal compliments. Left attended, it crosses over to the other side… where sexual activity looks brighter.

6. Lack of Effective Communication – instead of couples communicate with each other, they talk at each other, complain to each other, and criticize one another as a means to communicate. What this does is turn off the switch to the activities in bedroom, starting with a decline in intimacy and foreplaying.

7. Money – The Mighty King Sparrow (Calypsonian) sings, “No Money, No Love.” Couples are often not openly honest with each other about the finances. In many relationships, couples don’t budget; and the financial resources become depleted. The bills are yet to paid, but one partner has a new set of leather car seats or the other partner gets her ballroom-style gown, nails done, hair style off the chain for the upcoming event… Either way, neither partner previously discussed their spending; and thus, this turns into a verbal fight of yelling and name calling, resulting into resentment lasting for weeks up to months. When this happens, you know the bedroom door is closed for business… No Money, No Love!

8. Poor Time Management – due to the stressful demands of work and hours spent on community volunteering activities, couples become so busy and distressed that the quality of their marital relationship decline, starting with the lack of spending quality time with each other. Therefore, the teasing and cat-playing that usual precedes awesome sexual activities are stopped; thus, killing the “big bang” feeling during sexual activities.

9. Technological Interference and Distraction – with technology comes responsibility. Many couples text at dinner, at family meetings, in the bedroom – when they should be touching and gently caressing each other. Having the laptop in bed all the time next to your partner, doe not equal “Quality Time.” Many couples are on Facebook, when they should be kissing their partners faces. Many are on Twitter, when they should be tweeting the words of love in their partners ears. When this happens, partners will be turned off; thus, shutting the lid to the cookie jar.

10. Unwillingness to Forgive – “I can forgive, but I can’t forget” … is usually what is said when asked about forgiving the past and moving on for the better. Many couples are NOT willing to forgive; … they are able to forgive, but more often, they are NOT willing to forgive. When this happens, resentment usually dominates and many partners resort to sleeping in the children’s or other bedroom or on the sofa / couch to avoid intimacy or sexual interactions with their significant other.

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Women in Tourism Retreat Returns for Second Year with Western Air CEO Rexy Rolle as Keynote Speaker  

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Rexy Rolle, Keynote Speaker for Women in Tourism Retreat

Providenciales, Turks and Caicos Islands – November 12th, 2026: Women making their mark across the tourism industry will once again have an opportunity to connect, share experiences and celebrate their achievements as Women in Tourism Caribbean returns for its second year, featuring Bahamian aviation executive and attorney Rexy Rolle as keynote speaker.

The event, scheduled for November 12th to 15th at the Shore Club, brings together women from across the tourism sector for an occasion focused on building regional sisterhood, mentorship leadership, and the contributions women continue to make to one of the Caribbean’s most important industries.

Rolle serves as President, Chief Executive Officer and General Counsel of Western Air, the largest privately owned airline in The Bahamas. An Andros native from North Mastic Point, she has played a significant role in the airline’s growth, helping to expand its fleet and route network, develop new business opportunities and introduce services designed around the needs of its passengers.

Her keynote address will be on the topic: “Behind the Lipstick”.

“Miss Rolle’s participation as keynote speaker adds a youthful dimension to the second annual Women in Tourism event, creating an opportunity for attendees to hear from a young Caribbean woman who has helped steer a growing aviation enterprise while balancing the demands of business leadership, professional practice and community engagement. One of the aims of Women in Tourism is to inspire the next generation of to evolve the tourism industry and I know Miss Rolle will certainly provide that inspiration,” said Mrs. Stacy Cox, founder of Women in Tourism Caribbean.

Mrs. Cox started Women in Tourism Caribbean in 2019 as a digital initiative we than 14,000 followers to bring awareness to and honour women driving the tourism sector across the Caribbean from housekeeping to the C-suite. In 2025, she decided to take a step further in developing Women in Tourism as a weekend retreat.

The first year saw a wide cross-section of women from the Caribbean and diaspora flying to the Turks and Caicos Islands to celebrate each other, network and create a safe space to share their challenges, vulnerabilities and achievements.

“As women continue to shape tourism through entrepreneurship, management, aviation, hospitality, marketing and destination development, Women in Tourism Caribbean provides a space to recognise their contributions and encourage the next generation of female leaders. I am excited about our second year and even more excited to take Women in Tourism to another island in 2027,” said Mrs. Cox.

Panel discussions for Women in Tourism Caribbean 2026 will centre around the following themes: “Caribbean Isms” and “Rooted Yet Adaptable”.

Speakers include: Brittany Braithwaite (Barbados), Phoebe Pereira (Trinidad), Charmaine Gibbs (Grenada), Stacey Liburd (Anguilla), Sheba Wilson (Turks and Caicos), and Rose Anne DeFrieitas (US Virgin Islands).

Activities include a boat experience, Spa Day, school visits and an opening reception at Treasure Beach, Beaches Turks and Caicos.

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CARDI announces new leadership appointments for its  Board of Governors and Board of Directors

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12 November, 2026 | St Augustine, Trinidad and Tobago. The Caribbean Agricultural Research and Development Institute (CARDI) has officially announced the leadership appointments of the Honourable Floyd Green, MP, Minister of Agriculture and Fisheries, Jamaica, as Chairman of the CARDI Board of Governors (BOG), and Professor Leonard O’Garro as Chairman of the CARDI Board of Directors (BOD), for the period October 2026 to September 2029.

Minister Green brings extensive administrative and agricultural sector policy expertise to the Board of Governors. His leadership will guide CARDI’s strategic policy alignment, focusing heavily on regional value chains, import displacement initiatives, and strengthening agricultural standards across CARICOM Member States to support longterm food security.

Supporting this strategic mandate, Professor O’Garro, a national of St Vincent and the Grenadines, assumes leadership of the Institute’s Board of Directors with a distinguished background in biotechnology, biosafety, plant pathology and agricultural research. His technical guidance will direct the Institute’s scientific programming, ensuring that practical, science-driven innovations effectively address climate resilience and production challenges throughout the Caribbean.

Executive Director Ansari Hosein, in welcoming both leaders, noted that their combined vision, scientific acumen and regional and international experiences will be instrumental in further strengthening the leadership and governance of the Institute. He also thanked former Chairman, BOG, the Honourable Lennox Andrews, Minister for Economic Development, Planning, Agriculture and Lands, Forestry, Blue Economy, Marine Resources and Cooperatives, Grenada, and former Chairman, BOD, Mr Ignatius Jean, for their dedication and outstanding stewardship over the years.

The Institute remains committed to delivering high-impact, tangible agricultural research and development solutions that enhance regional productivity, food and nutrition security, and sustainable development for its Member States.

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Islanders Benefit from Free Dental Care Through Sandals Foundation, Great Shape, and TCI Gov’t Partnership

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PROVIDENCIALES, Turks and Caicos Islands – Approximately 1,400 residents of the Turks and Caicos Islands (TCI) benefited from comprehensive, state-of-the-art dental care through a recently concluded 1000 Smiles dental clinic, initiative spearheaded by Great Shape! Inc. in partnership with the Sandals Foundation, Beaches Turks & Caicos and the Ministry of Health and Human Services.

Hosted at the Church of God of Prophecy in Five Cays, Providenciales, the initiative provided a wide range of essential dental services at no cost to beneficiaries. These included dental examinations, professional cleanings, fillings, extractions, X-rays, sealants and other necessary treatments, helping to address oral health needs while improving access to quality dental care within the local community.

Now in its fifth year in the Turks and Caicos Islands, the programme continues to demonstrate the value of sustained public-private partnerships in expanding access to essential healthcare. The growing reach of the initiative reflects residents’ continued support and confidence in the philanthropic commitment of the Sandals Foundation, the charitable arm of Sandals Resorts International, its partnership with the Government of the Turks and Caicos Islands and Great Shape! Inc.

A team of 77 dental professionals participated in this year’s clinic, delivering services with efficiency, professionalism and a shared commitment to improving the oral health and wellbeing of residents.

Beyond the provision of direct dental treatment, the initiative also placed significant emphasis on preventive care and education, recognising the importance of establishing good oral hygiene practices from an early age.

Through Great Shape! Inc.’s dental education programme, teams visited schools across the Turks and Caicos Islands, reaching a total of 4,320 students with practical information and guidance on maintaining good oral health. Participating institutions included Thelma Lightbourne Primary School, BEST Institute, Community Christian School, Ashley Learning Centre, Preparing Little Minds, Richmond Hill Preparatory School, Ianthe Pratt Primary School, Maranatha Academy, Elite School, Holy Family School, Oseta Jolly Primary School, Enid Capron Primary School, Provo Christian Academy, Shining Stars Preparatory School and Mills Institute.

During school visits, students and teachers participated in interactive educational sessions that highlighted the importance of proper brushing techniques, flossing and consistent oral hygiene practices. The sessions were designed to build awareness, encourage healthy habits and reinforce the importance of preventive dental care.

Deryk Meany, General Manager of Beaches Turks and Caicos, was elated to see the turnout of families, noting that increasing access to healthcare services is a key component of the philanthropic organization’s work in improving the lives of the region’s people.

“We are beyond pleased to see the expansion of the 1000 Smiles dental programme in Turks and Caicos Islands. Healthy people make healthy communities and as an organization committed to nation building, we are fully committed to doing what we can to invest in the long- term development of the region’s health sector and services,” Mr. Meany stated.

The continued implementation of the 1000 Smiles dental clinic initiative has been strengthened through a Memorandum of Understanding with the Government of the Turks and Caicos Islands in collaboration with the Sandals Foundation, to facilitate the provision of free dental care to residents during the month of October.

The programme underscores the importance of collaborative partnerships in addressing community healthcare needs, particularly in areas where access to affordable dental services may be a challenge. By combining clinical services with educational outreach, the initiative delivers both immediate assistance and longer-term benefits through increased awareness and prevention.

Great Shape! Inc.’s 1000 Smiles project has established a significant regional presence, providing free dental services to thousands of beneficiaries across Jamaica, Saint Lucia, Grenada, the Turks and Caicos Islands, Antigua, Barbados and The Bahamas.

Through initiatives such as 1000 Smiles, the Sandals Foundation and its partners continue to demonstrate a commitment to strengthening communities, supporting healthier futures and making a meaningful difference in the lives of Caribbean people.

Photo captions: All photographs were taken at the clinic site except the dental group at Beaches.

(Members of the Great Shape dental team attending to patients at the recent dental clinic staged in the Turks and Caicos Islands.)

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